Saturday, July 31, 2010

::: Glossary of Kink ::: :::BDSM Glossary::: G-H

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Friday, July 30, 2010

:: Glossary of Kink ::: :::BDSM Glossary::: E-F

So I found this on Fetlife.com it is a 
:::  Glossary of Kink :::
:::BDSM Glossary:::
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Earplugs: Can be used in sensory deprivation play.
Ed. op.: editorial opinion. Used in this Glossary to express subjective commentary; based on the moderator's experience and opinion, and is not expected to apply to every person or situation. Always expressed in [brackets]. [for example: All ed. ops. followed by "bdaile" should be considered truth, since she is a woman and therefore perfect. --bdaile][Humble, too... --SirDreams]
Edge play: Play which pushes the limits of the persons involved. Also used for potentially dangerous activities such as fire, electricity, cutting, or breath play, which require careful study and practice before attempting.
Electric play: Any of a variety of different practices involving the use of electrical current or electricity to stimulate a person. Some common forms of electrical play include using high-voltage, low-current devices such as violet wands or the use of controlled pulses of electricity to induce muscle contractions as with a TENS unit. Also a stun gun or cattle prod can be used.
Emotional play: (see humiliation and squick) Play making use of heavy emotional content; often humiliation, sometimes fear or shame.
Embarrassment: (see humiliation) Actions which cause shame, mild form of humiliation.
Endorphin rush: (see aftercare and subdrop) Endorphins are the chemicals responsible for the "high" people often get from activities such as sex, or high-risk sports, and is the body's response to heightened or intense experiences of certain kinds. BDSM activities, especially those incorporating a degree of sensation play, often cultivate the endorphin rush as part of their "payoff" to the sub.
Erotic sexual denial: (see tease, denial, and chastity) Keeping another person aroused while delaying or preventing resolution of the feelings, to keep them in a continual state of anticipatory tension and inner conflict, and heightened sensitivity.
Evil stick: An implement consisting of a thin rod of carbon fiber, typically about the diameter of a mechanical pencil lead, attached to a small, rigid handle. The carbon fiber rod is flexible and very strong; when laid against the skin and then flicked with a strong upward motion at its tip, it causes a sharp pain and typically leaves a thin, well-defined welt that can persist for days.
Exhibitionism: To show off or expose oneself sexually. Usually done to gain pleasure and usually not done in the manner of the dirty old man in a trench coat.
Face fucking: Forcing a dildo or penis into someone's mouth and forcing them to perform fellatio.
Face sitting: (see queening) Play in which the Top sits on the face of the Bottom. It may or may not involve breath control by suffocation.
Fall: The striking end of a singletail.
Fantasy: Something one thinks about. Usually a fantasy that makes one respond sexually. Common to have a fantasy while masturbating or having sex. Some fantasies should be left in your mind rather than try to make them a reality.
Fantasy Rape: A consensual rape scene.
Fear play: Playing with a real fear in a safe and controlled manner.
Fellatio: oral sex performed for man, the sexual stimulation of a man's genitals using the tongue and lips.
Feminization: To be forced to dress up as a female usually in frilly, lacy clothing.
Femdom: A power exchange relationship in which the dominant is female. Often (but not always) used to refer to a relationship between a female dominant and a male submissive.
Fetish: A specific obsession or delight in one object or experience.
Fetishist: One who gains arousal or gratification, sexual or otherwise, from a fetish.
Fetnights: Kinky events and/or play parties
Figging: The act of inserting a prepared "finger" of ginger root or chili pepper into the anus. The burning sensation is said to induce intense pleasure. [ed op: Riiiiight!! bdaile]
'Fire and ice' (see wax play, especially caution note there): Play involving the use of hot wax alternated with cold water, usually dripped directly from a melting ice cube.
Fire play: Using flammable liquids to create quick, fleeting instances of flame on the skin of the bottom. Risk of injury is increased and the top should be learned in fire play skills. See DTTAH!
Floating (see aftercare, subspace, endorphin high): How subspace is often described by subbies. "When Alex raised his voice, Debra shushed him, indicating the comatose girl in her Master's arms. 'Shhh... floating subbie!"
Flogger: An implement used to strike a person, consisting of a handle with multiple lashes attached to it. The lashes are typically made of leather, but may also be made of materials such as rope, suede, horsehair, or even rubber. picture
Florentine: A flashy flogging technique involving the use of a flogger in each hand. The floggers are swung in a figure-8 pattern.
Flying: see "floating"
Fluid exchange (see BYOT): Any activity in which bodily fluids may be exchanged, including mouth-to-mouth, mouth-to-genital, or genital-to-genital. Also includes any contact with blood or with the anus (even though the latter isn't usually "fluid"). Fluid exchange activities are often prohibited at play parties, except with one's own partner(s), for health reasons. Similarly, one is often required to bring their own toys, which should never be shared.
Foot worship: To orally service the Dom/me's feet. Commonly by sucking, kissing, licking the Dom/me's bare feet.
Forced orgasm: An orgasm induced in a person against that person's will or as part of resistance play.
French: Of or related to oral sex.
Frottage: Rubbing body against partner or object for arousal.
FtM: Transgender, Female to Male
furry: One who plays wearing an animal suit or mascot costume and assumes the animal's character. [thanks, Slave Teddy]
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Love Lips! Discreet Vibrator - A Sex Toy From GoodVibes.com

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Thursday, July 29, 2010

Lust Dust Edible Body Powder From GoodVibes.com

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::: Glossary of Kink ::: :::BDSM Glossary::: C-D

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Drink of The Day

Audios Mother Fucker

1/2 oz vodka
1/2 oz rum
1/2 oz 1800® Tequila
1/2 oz gin
1/2 oz Blue Curacao liqueur
2 oz sweet and sour mix
2 oz 7-Up® soda

Pour all ingredients except the 7-Up into a chilled glass filled with ice cubes. Top with 7-Up and stir gently.
 
Be careful with this drink, you do not taste the alcohol at first but it will kick your butt later. My friend Brandon found this out the hard way at the bar this past weekend

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Tenga Twister :: From Babeland

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Love Babelicious Lube "Delce De Leche" From Babeland

"Delce De Leche"

Speicals -
  • Water Based
  • Latex Friendly
  • Gel Formula
  • Glycerin-Free
  • Paraben-Free
Size :: 2 Fl oz / 59 ml

My Thoughts ::
When I popped the cap off of this mazing lube from babeland, It smelled delicious. It reminded me of sweet carmel, I just love the taste of carmel. So when I tried this carmel smelling lube it did remind me a little of carmel but not really. It is not a bad taste at all but I would not be going out to the store anytime soon to buy a bunch of lube and eat it. However if you are going down on your partner for a much need oral fix this can spice things and get you wet. I thing this would be a great lube for going down on a guy. You get a different taste in your mouth for a little while and it would be fun. You can use it with toys but I am not sure why you would use a flavored lube with a sex toy. Maybe you ran out of your plain lube you can use this lovely water based lube to have some play time with your self. I would like to remind everyone that with a water based lube you dont need to use a lot, A little can go a long way.

FTC:: This post was written for Babeland.com who provided the complimentary product in exchange for my honest review.

::: Glossary of Kink ::: :::BDSM Glossary::: A-B

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The Lingo of the Sex World

With all the adults of the world having sex,
not many talk about it openly.
I on the other hand have no problem talking about sex
with my friends.
With my family that is a different story, it is painful so I just do not talk about it with them. Not like I would any ways. It would just be to weird for me.

So I was started think about the lingo in the sex world the other day and realized I really did not know it.
I know what I like but I had no idea if it really was a fetish or if their was any terms for it. 
So I did some digging around and found a fabulous site what I am
finding out what the terms are.

So every day a post will be up for the two of the letter of the alphabet every day. All I can say is WOW I did not even know most of these existed.

So just look for the post that says 
:::  Glossary of Kink :::
:::BDSM Glossary:::

Drink of The Day

Apricot Brandy Sour
Shaken
  1. 1 1/4 oz Lemon Juice
  2. 1 1/14 oz Apricot Brandy
  3. 1 teaspoon  sugar 
  4. few ice cubes
Shake this all up in a shaker.
Pour in a Glass and Relax

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Drink of The Day

Between the Sheets
Shaken
  1. 1/4 oz Triple Sec
  2. 1/4 oz Brandy
  3. 1 oz White Rum
  4. 1 1/4 oz Lemon Juice
  5.  1 teaspoon Instant Sugar(Fruit)

Shake this all up in a shaker.
Pour in a Glass and Relax

Monday, July 26, 2010

Drink of The Day

Bar Fly Buster
Layered
  1. 1/2 oz Kahlua
  2. 1/2 oz Cinamon "Hot Damn" 
  3. 1/2 oz Carolan's Irish Creme
 Drink up

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Drink of The Day

Appletini
Stirred
Supper Easy:
  1. 2 oz vodka
  2. 1/2 oz Sour Puss: Sour Apple

Stir in a Glass and Relax

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Drink of The Day

Amaretto
 Shaken
  1. 1 1/4 oz lemon juice
  2. 1 1/4 oz Amaretto Dell' Amorosa
  3. 1 Teaspoon sugar
  4. Few Ice Cubes
Shake this all up in a shaker.
Pour in a Glass and Relax

Friday, July 23, 2010

Drink of The Day

After Eight
Layered

3 oz Green Creme
1 1/4 oz Tia Maria
3/4 oz Irish Creme
Directions:
 You layer the alcohol in order

Thursday, July 22, 2010

What New Toy Do I really Want???

Ever since I really started to look at sex toy's I have just loved the 
JIMMYJANE
Line of sex product 

They have so many different items I truly want them all.
Here I just one of the ones i want 
LITTLE CHROMA VANITAS
 
 

Details
  • The vibrator's frequency is tuned to provide a deep, resonant sensation.
  • Our vibrators all feature our exclusive, patented replaceable motor system.
  • Our vibrators are 5.25" long, and 0.67" in diameter.
  • All materials are medical quality, body safe and dishwasher safe.
  • LITTLE CHROMA is lightweight, and made of high quality anodized aluminum.
  • Three Year Limited Warranty.
 What new sex toy do you want to get??

Drink of The Day

Africian Queen
Shaken
  1. 3 oz Orange Juice
  2. 1/2 oz grenadine Syrup
  3. 1 oz Creme DeBanane Mc
  4. 1/2 oz grand Curacoa Meagher's
Shake this all up in a shaker.
Pour in a Glass and Relax

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Free Jimmy Jane Product @ Babeland

Have you heard about the am amazing Jimmy Jane Product??

Well over at Babeland if you make a 
Jimmy Jane purchase of 
$75.00 or more you get a Ember Body and Massage Candle:
Do you not have the money for a $75.00 Jimmy Jane Purchase it is ok 
If you Donate $5.00 to the SIECUS 

Drink of The Day

Today's Drink of the Day
Tequila Head Slam

Ingredients
  • 1/3 oz Gold tequila (Cuervo)
  • 1/3 oz Grenadine (Rose's)
  • 1/3 oz 7-Up
 Directions Build the three ingredients in a shot glass in the order listed. Fold a paper bar napkin and place firmly over the top. Slam the shot glass on the table, bar, etc. Make sure the drink fizzes. Turn the drink up and 'Slam It Into Your Head' before the fizzing subsides or try to be the first to re-slam the empty shot glass to the bar in a 'Group Head Slam'.

Let me know what you think of this drink. 

Sqweel Oral Sex Simulator - Sex Toy From Goodvibes.com

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Best of Erotica 2010 from Babeland

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Saturday, July 10, 2010

Cater To Me Kit - Sex Toys at GoodVibes

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