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::: Glossary of Kink :::
:::BDSM Glossary:::
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Earplugs: Can be used in sensory deprivation play.
Ed. op.: editorial opinion. Used in this Glossary to express subjective commentary; based on the moderator's experience and opinion, and is not expected to apply to every person or situation. Always expressed in [brackets]. [for example: All ed. ops. followed by "bdaile" should be considered truth, since she is a woman and therefore perfect. --bdaile][Humble, too... --SirDreams]
Edge play: Play which pushes the limits of the persons involved. Also used for potentially dangerous activities such as fire, electricity, cutting, or breath play, which require careful study and practice before attempting.
Electric play: Any of a variety of different practices involving the use of electrical current or electricity to stimulate a person. Some common forms of electrical play include using high-voltage, low-current devices such as violet wands or the use of controlled pulses of electricity to induce muscle contractions as with a TENS unit. Also a stun gun or cattle prod can be used.
Emotional play: (see humiliation and squick) Play making use of heavy emotional content; often humiliation, sometimes fear or shame.
Embarrassment: (see humiliation) Actions which cause shame, mild form of humiliation.
Endorphin rush: (see aftercare and subdrop) Endorphins are the chemicals responsible for the "high" people often get from activities such as sex, or high-risk sports, and is the body's response to heightened or intense experiences of certain kinds. BDSM activities, especially those incorporating a degree of sensation play, often cultivate the endorphin rush as part of their "payoff" to the sub.
Erotic sexual denial: (see tease, denial, and chastity) Keeping another person aroused while delaying or preventing resolution of the feelings, to keep them in a continual state of anticipatory tension and inner conflict, and heightened sensitivity.
Evil stick: An implement consisting of a thin rod of carbon fiber, typically about the diameter of a mechanical pencil lead, attached to a small, rigid handle. The carbon fiber rod is flexible and very strong; when laid against the skin and then flicked with a strong upward motion at its tip, it causes a sharp pain and typically leaves a thin, well-defined welt that can persist for days.
Exhibitionism: To show off or expose oneself sexually. Usually done to gain pleasure and usually not done in the manner of the dirty old man in a trench coat.
Face fucking: Forcing a dildo or penis into someone's mouth and forcing them to perform fellatio.
Face sitting: (see queening) Play in which the Top sits on the face of the Bottom. It may or may not involve breath control by suffocation.
Fall: The striking end of a singletail.
Fantasy: Something one thinks about. Usually a fantasy that makes one respond sexually. Common to have a fantasy while masturbating or having sex. Some fantasies should be left in your mind rather than try to make them a reality.
Fantasy Rape: A consensual rape scene.
Fear play: Playing with a real fear in a safe and controlled manner.
Fellatio: oral sex performed for man, the sexual stimulation of a man's genitals using the tongue and lips.
Feminization: To be forced to dress up as a female usually in frilly, lacy clothing.
Femdom: A power exchange relationship in which the dominant is female. Often (but not always) used to refer to a relationship between a female dominant and a male submissive.
Fetish: A specific obsession or delight in one object or experience.
Fetishist: One who gains arousal or gratification, sexual or otherwise, from a fetish.
Fetnights: Kinky events and/or play parties
Figging: The act of inserting a prepared "finger" of ginger root or chili pepper into the anus. The burning sensation is said to induce intense pleasure. [ed op: Riiiiight!! bdaile]
'Fire and ice' (see wax play, especially caution note there): Play involving the use of hot wax alternated with cold water, usually dripped directly from a melting ice cube.
Fire play: Using flammable liquids to create quick, fleeting instances of flame on the skin of the bottom. Risk of injury is increased and the top should be learned in fire play skills. See DTTAH!
Floating (see aftercare, subspace, endorphin high): How subspace is often described by subbies. "When Alex raised his voice, Debra shushed him, indicating the comatose girl in her Master's arms. 'Shhh... floating subbie!"
Flogger: An implement used to strike a person, consisting of a handle with multiple lashes attached to it. The lashes are typically made of leather, but may also be made of materials such as rope, suede, horsehair, or even rubber. picture
Florentine: A flashy flogging technique involving the use of a flogger in each hand. The floggers are swung in a figure-8 pattern.
Flying: see "floating"
Fluid exchange (see BYOT): Any activity in which bodily fluids may be exchanged, including mouth-to-mouth, mouth-to-genital, or genital-to-genital. Also includes any contact with blood or with the anus (even though the latter isn't usually "fluid"). Fluid exchange activities are often prohibited at play parties, except with one's own partner(s), for health reasons. Similarly, one is often required to bring their own toys, which should never be shared.
Foot worship: To orally service the Dom/me's feet. Commonly by sucking, kissing, licking the Dom/me's bare feet.
Forced orgasm: An orgasm induced in a person against that person's will or as part of resistance play.
French: Of or related to oral sex.
Frottage: Rubbing body against partner or object for arousal.
FtM: Transgender, Female to Male
furry: One who plays wearing an animal suit or mascot costume and assumes the animal's character. [thanks, Slave Teddy]
Ed. op.: editorial opinion. Used in this Glossary to express subjective commentary; based on the moderator's experience and opinion, and is not expected to apply to every person or situation. Always expressed in [brackets]. [for example: All ed. ops. followed by "bdaile" should be considered truth, since she is a woman and therefore perfect. --bdaile][Humble, too... --SirDreams]
Edge play: Play which pushes the limits of the persons involved. Also used for potentially dangerous activities such as fire, electricity, cutting, or breath play, which require careful study and practice before attempting.
Electric play: Any of a variety of different practices involving the use of electrical current or electricity to stimulate a person. Some common forms of electrical play include using high-voltage, low-current devices such as violet wands or the use of controlled pulses of electricity to induce muscle contractions as with a TENS unit. Also a stun gun or cattle prod can be used.
Emotional play: (see humiliation and squick) Play making use of heavy emotional content; often humiliation, sometimes fear or shame.
Embarrassment: (see humiliation) Actions which cause shame, mild form of humiliation.
Endorphin rush: (see aftercare and subdrop) Endorphins are the chemicals responsible for the "high" people often get from activities such as sex, or high-risk sports, and is the body's response to heightened or intense experiences of certain kinds. BDSM activities, especially those incorporating a degree of sensation play, often cultivate the endorphin rush as part of their "payoff" to the sub.
Erotic sexual denial: (see tease, denial, and chastity) Keeping another person aroused while delaying or preventing resolution of the feelings, to keep them in a continual state of anticipatory tension and inner conflict, and heightened sensitivity.
Evil stick: An implement consisting of a thin rod of carbon fiber, typically about the diameter of a mechanical pencil lead, attached to a small, rigid handle. The carbon fiber rod is flexible and very strong; when laid against the skin and then flicked with a strong upward motion at its tip, it causes a sharp pain and typically leaves a thin, well-defined welt that can persist for days.
Exhibitionism: To show off or expose oneself sexually. Usually done to gain pleasure and usually not done in the manner of the dirty old man in a trench coat.
Face fucking: Forcing a dildo or penis into someone's mouth and forcing them to perform fellatio.
Face sitting: (see queening) Play in which the Top sits on the face of the Bottom. It may or may not involve breath control by suffocation.
Fall: The striking end of a singletail.
Fantasy: Something one thinks about. Usually a fantasy that makes one respond sexually. Common to have a fantasy while masturbating or having sex. Some fantasies should be left in your mind rather than try to make them a reality.
Fantasy Rape: A consensual rape scene.
Fear play: Playing with a real fear in a safe and controlled manner.
Fellatio: oral sex performed for man, the sexual stimulation of a man's genitals using the tongue and lips.
Feminization: To be forced to dress up as a female usually in frilly, lacy clothing.
Femdom: A power exchange relationship in which the dominant is female. Often (but not always) used to refer to a relationship between a female dominant and a male submissive.
Fetish: A specific obsession or delight in one object or experience.
Fetishist: One who gains arousal or gratification, sexual or otherwise, from a fetish.
Fetnights: Kinky events and/or play parties
Figging: The act of inserting a prepared "finger" of ginger root or chili pepper into the anus. The burning sensation is said to induce intense pleasure. [ed op: Riiiiight!! bdaile]
'Fire and ice' (see wax play, especially caution note there): Play involving the use of hot wax alternated with cold water, usually dripped directly from a melting ice cube.
Fire play: Using flammable liquids to create quick, fleeting instances of flame on the skin of the bottom. Risk of injury is increased and the top should be learned in fire play skills. See DTTAH!
Floating (see aftercare, subspace, endorphin high): How subspace is often described by subbies. "When Alex raised his voice, Debra shushed him, indicating the comatose girl in her Master's arms. 'Shhh... floating subbie!"
Flogger: An implement used to strike a person, consisting of a handle with multiple lashes attached to it. The lashes are typically made of leather, but may also be made of materials such as rope, suede, horsehair, or even rubber. picture
Florentine: A flashy flogging technique involving the use of a flogger in each hand. The floggers are swung in a figure-8 pattern.
Flying: see "floating"
Fluid exchange (see BYOT): Any activity in which bodily fluids may be exchanged, including mouth-to-mouth, mouth-to-genital, or genital-to-genital. Also includes any contact with blood or with the anus (even though the latter isn't usually "fluid"). Fluid exchange activities are often prohibited at play parties, except with one's own partner(s), for health reasons. Similarly, one is often required to bring their own toys, which should never be shared.
Foot worship: To orally service the Dom/me's feet. Commonly by sucking, kissing, licking the Dom/me's bare feet.
Forced orgasm: An orgasm induced in a person against that person's will or as part of resistance play.
French: Of or related to oral sex.
Frottage: Rubbing body against partner or object for arousal.
FtM: Transgender, Female to Male
furry: One who plays wearing an animal suit or mascot costume and assumes the animal's character. [thanks, Slave Teddy]
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